… then respect him saying:

Bakr Ibn ‘Abdullaah Al-Muzani said:

“If you see someone older than you then respect him saying, ‘He has beaten me to Islaam and righteous action.’

If you see someone younger than you then respect him saying to yourself, ‘I have beaten him in sins’.”

[Al-Bayhaqi, Al-Zuhd Al-Kabeer, p.100]

There is nothing more beneficial…

Ahmad Ibn Harb said:

“There is nothing more beneficial to a Muslim’s heart than to mix with the righteous and to watch their actions, while nothing is more harmful to the heart than mixing with the sinners and watching their actions.”

[Al-Bayhaqi, Al-Zuhd Al-Kabeer, p.100]

… calming hearts and bringing rest and tranquility to them

Ibn Bāz said:

❝There is no doubt that increasing Dhikr, seeking Allah’s Forgiveness, and invoking His Blessings and Peace on the Messenger of Allah are of the greatest ways of calming hearts and bringing rest and tranquility to them, having faith in Allah, and removing loneliness, vacillation, and confusion.❞

[Fatwas of Ibn Bāz, The Book of Salah, (11/209, Part No. 11) | Alifta]

Your mother…

From ‘Alee bin al-Hussain that it was said to him that you are from the best amongst the people but I do not see you eating with your mother?’ He answered: ‘I fear that, if I eat with her, my hand might precede her eye upon some food, so I would have been disrespectful to her! !’ [Collected in ‘al-Birr wa Silaah’ p.82, taken from ‘Akhbar as-Salaf’ p.270] 

From al-Hasan bin Nuh who said: Khamas used to work using plaster every day for two small coins, and when the evening would approach he would buy a piece of fruit with that and bring it to his mother!’ [Collected in ‘al-Hileeyah’ 6/212, taken from ‘Akhbar as-Salaf’ p.271]

When your companion becomes angry…

Ibnul-Jawzee, رحمه الله تعالى, said: 

“When your companion becomes angry and says something that is unwarranted, you should not take it too hard. His situation is that of a drunken person who is not aware of what is taking place. Instead, be patient, even if it means only for a little while. If you reciprocate his words with harsh words of your own, you become like the sane person who seeks revenge on a madman, or the conscious person who seeks retribution from an unconscious one. Look at him with a merciful eye and pity him for his actions.”

[Sayd al-Khaatir, Pg. 406]

A person will be with the ones whom he loves

عن أبي موسى الأشعري رضي الله تعالى عنه، قال، قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم:
“الْمَرْءُ مَعَ مَنْ أَحَب‏”
رواه البخاري و مسلم
On the authority of Abu Musa al-Ash’aree, may Allah be pleased with him, that he narrated that Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“A person will be with the ones whom he loves”
Reported by Al-Bukhaari and Muslim.